I’ve been on a journey starting my new website http://www.yourancestrysearch.com and along with that, I’ve realized that my mental health and my ancestor’s mental health were connected.
I have been privileged to interview my friend Clifton H. Fuller regarding this issue which I’ve attached below. I’d love for you to read it and perhaps share with me your thoughts?
What can I see today that I didn’t see yesterday?
An Interview with Clifton Fuller – Licensed Counselor (LCSW-S, LPC-S, LMFT-S) & Certified Life Coach
Today, I had the privilege of sitting down with my good friend and client, Clifton Fuller from San Antonio, Texas, for a meaningful conversation about mental health and its impact on our lives and the people we love.
One of the most powerful themes we explored was the link between ancestry and generational trauma—something that is only recently gaining the attention it deserves. Increasingly, we’re beginning to understand that the experiences of those who came before us can shape how we think, feel, and respond to the world today.
When we take the time to explore our family history, we often uncover patterns, resilience, and stories that help us better understand ourselves. That awareness can be the starting point for healing—not just for us, but for future generations.
Conversations like this matter. They help break stigma, deepen understanding, and remind us that mental health is something we all share and can support in one another.
While we were discussing this topic, Clifton posed a question that truly resonated with me as a genealogist. It struck a chord on a deeper level, highlighting just how closely our family histories are intertwined with our present-day experiences, hence why I titled this interview with this question!
What can I see today that I couldn’t see yesterday?
Or perhaps more importantly—what can my family history reveal that helps me better understand how my family functions today, with all its complexities, challenges, and dynamics?
As a genealogist, or simply as someone seeking understanding—I often look to the past for names, dates, and places. But what if we looked for patterns instead? What if we asked how the lives, struggles, and resilience of our ancestors continue to echo through us?
When we take the time to truly explore our family histories, we may begin to notice recurring themes—patterns of hardship, migration, loss, or even silence. In some cases, there may be a predisposition toward depression, anxiety, or other mental health struggles. These are not just modern issues; they are often deeply rooted in lived experiences passed through generations.
Our ancestors endured wars, displacement, poverty, and personal trauma—events that shaped not only their lives but, in many ways, the emotional frameworks of the families that followed. Understanding this doesn’t assign blame; rather, it offers clarity. It allows us to see that some of what we carry may not have started with us. And in that realization, there is power.
Clifton shared something that truly stayed with me—he said that my research into his paternal ancestry genuinely helped him. Before this, much of that history was unknown to him, largely because earlier generations simply didn’t talk about their struggles or traumas.
With a deeper understanding of his family’s past and the realities they lived through, he was able to develop a greater sense of empathy for them. He began to see how their experiences shaped not only their mental health, but also the ways they coped with life’s challenges—and how those patterns can echo into the present.
Because when we can see these patterns clearly, we can begin to respond differently. We can develop compassion—for ourselves and for those who came before us. We can make more informed choices about how we cope, communicate, and heal.
Family history, then, becomes more than a record of the past. It becomes a tool for awareness, a pathway to healing, and a lens through which we can better understand who we are today—and who we want to become.
Sandra Moffatt, PLCGS
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